If a tree falls in the forest when nobody is there, does it still make a sound?I used to feel that way about this blog. Well, sometimes I still do.
My reasons for blogging aren't big or important. Mostly it is because I live far from family and old friends and felt it was a little presumptuous to send the constant stream of emails bragging on my kids with all the attendant photos. I figure of anyone wants to know what's up in our life, they can come here to find out and if they don't care, they don't have to keep getting my self-important emails.
I also like to write. Sometimes I wish I actually had something important to say.
It's not that I expect hoards of readers, or anything in the way of spirited discussion.
But, for the longest time, I sort of felt like it was throwing a party where nobody came. I guess I expected more people to post comments or something. I mean,
Dooce gets like 900 comments a day on her blog, I usually get ZERO. But, I'm thinking that those 900 comments really translate into, oh, I dunno, maybe a bazillion readers or something, because the last week or two, I've heard a lot of this:
Girl Scout Mommy: "I read your
post about evolution, and I thought to myself, 'I have to get to know Pam better!'"
Wow- and I was actually worried about offending people with that one!Baseball Coach: "I hope you don't mind, but I clicked on that 'my blog' link at the bottom of your email. Is it OK that I read that stuff?"
Of course! That's why it's there!Neighbor at a cocktail party: "I must confess, I feel like a voyeur when I read your blog, but I can SO relate to it, your post about
Bridget's singing was JUST LIKE what happened with my 20-year old 10 years ago..."
Which sparked a lovely discussion from which I learned a lot about how to support Bridget in this potentially new activity which I'd never before considered.So, to my bazillion anonymous readers out there in the bloggosphere:
yes you are allowed to be here, and most importantly thanks for coming. Enjoy!